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Originally Posted by LoveLifeMeaningOver
What is considered cheating to guys? Why would you cheat? And what do you do if you know that your girlfriend knows that you cheated on her, but she hasn't said anything to you? (Sorry that last one was a bit complicated)
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1. I consider cheating any hidden, undiscussed sexual or affectionate contact pass hugging with (if straight) a member of the opposite sex and (if gay or bi) anyone who is not seen as a friend(of course that's not foolproof because they can can cheat on you with their best friend i suppose, but I wouldn't see it as cheating if they was holding hands with them) ? if that makes sense... lol... I think that covers anything I can think of... oh and cybering aswell... or any other form of "sex talk" using text...
2. I would like to say Oh I would never cheat! But thats not true, I'm ashamed to say that in my weakness I would probably cheat if I'm lonely and a strong temptation would pass me. other than that I wouldn't see a reason to cheat, because if you want someone else and not the person your with it would just hurt everyone inolved to do it serrupticiously.
3. Well, if I was cheating on my gilrfriend, I wouldn't do it secretly, I mean I woudl tell her as soon as I fucked up. I mean to hide it from her would be further insult, and would suggest that you did it calculatingly and maliciously. so I would definitely tell her and let whatever consequences I will have as my own responsibility.
To Girls, If you truly loved your patner, if he was the one, would there be any circumstances where you would allow him to be with other women? (Assuming that he loved you back)