[PlayingPretend]

Well if it helps any, my first boyfriend was almost mortified about it whereas it wasn't so important to me that it happened. It's not like you get one shot and that's it. If it got to the point of being absolutely necessary, you could always try again another night. If you're with someone who's with you for you, like I said, she'll be patient and understanding. I think it's the same way women tend to stress so much about their bodies when it comes to being in the bedroom... I am assuming that most men are attracted to their girlfriends. Despite your insecurities, it's not going to matter to your girlfriend as much as you might think.