Re: 8 moths pregnant at 17 and all by myslef...please help. -
June 2nd 2011, 06:54 AM
I want to say this and I know many would disagree, but I watched my aunt do it and it isn't easy... Don't give that child up, and I say this with all in me because you will live your life in regret and always ask what if. Some mothers who give their children up regret it and wish they hadn't. You do not know what you are capable of until you are driven to do something. You are right you did breathe for this child. Also this is a selfless act if you give this child up and it may be for the better and it takes courage to do it, but you have to ask yourself is the struggle of supporting this child and possibly being able to give him all of what he needs in the end going to outweigh the regret and tears I cry for the rest of my life? You can struggle now but in three years will you see that you could have made it with this child? I think you should see a consular but the push more toward adoption and thats just what they do. But it may help
"Have no fear for giving in, Have no fear for giving over
You'd better know that in the end, Its better to say too much, Than never to say what you need to say again" - John Mayer
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