Polyamorous Dating? -
May 23rd 2011, 05:25 AM
So I have a boyfriend whom I love very much, however he lives in Ontario and I in Manitoba so we can't exactly be together physically, and we're in an open relationship and VERY emotionally and sexually open with each other. We have numerous fantasies about having multiple sexual partners at once and we're both okay with it, but a friend of ours told us I should have to boyfriends. At first I shrugged off the suggestion trying not to think of the person I've slowly been developing feelings for in my school, but been staying away from without completely avoiding him as my friend all togther the best I can. Later my boyfriend and I got to talking about it privately and he so badly wants for me to be more than satisfied and fullfilled emotionally, spiritually and phyiscally at all times. I didn't like the idea because it seemed so morally wrong at first but he went on to mention how much closer he feels to me when he shares me with someone else (for a long explanation that will take another 10 minutes to explain) and i started to think about it, having someone to lean one when you may have ups and downs with the other, having someone for each other when you can't always be around. It seems like something I'd enjoy much more knowing I'll always have someone around and so will he etc. as well as I do already have feelings for another person. So what I'm wondering is it REALLY so morally wrong to have more than one partner? I mean society paints homosexuality and other such things as wrong and it's not so why should poligamy? I mean if all partners are into it? For those of you in polyamorous relationships what are they like and have you dated one partner faithfully at a time before? Also how do your friends and family take it?
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Last edited by AmazonQueen; May 23rd 2011 at 06:03 AM.
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