[FranklinF]

go get on medicaid, start looking for a job, tell him he has the choice of being in the childs life, and if not boot him, if you really want to keep the child then do it, you sound like you have your mind made up, just stick to your guns,

i was in the same situation three years ago, i had only been with my boyfriend a short while, now we have a son, and just got married, every guy is different, but give him a chance when or if he comes around.