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Re: My friend's cutting again -
April 30th 2011, 04:20 AM
Hey Magaly.
I think it's great you care about your friend so much. I know how hard it is to be in your situation, but the good news is, there's things you can do to help.
First, be there for him. Let him know you're concerned, and you want to help. Ask him if there's anything you can do to help him get through this, and invite him to talk to you about it. You could also encourage him to talk to other people, like his parents, or a therapist.
Second, you can suggest distractions, such as these. Help him find healthier coping mechanisms. You could even mention TeenHelp to him (but I understand if you don't want to; I wouldn't be comfortable if any of my friends from 'outside' were on here).
Finally, if you're ever really worried about his safety, it's best to tell someone, an adult. He may be angry at first, but eventually he'll thank you, because it's for the best. He's obviously going through a tough time, but this can also be hard on you, so remember to take care of yourself as well. If it's too much, reach out for help yourself. You don't have to do this alone.
Good luck.
"Love means never having to say you're a werewolf."
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