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Originally Posted by Hyperion

I have an open question, but I don't feel like it's worth my own thread, so please, feel free to give me input here. (This is for the ladies, by the way)

If you have a guy friend who is in love with you, would you rather he tell you to get it out in the open, or not say anything in order to prevent awkwardness in your friendship?

I think a lot of girls will tell you that they would want to know, because to a certain degree, many girls have had crushes on their close male friends from time to time. To be honest, though, whenever friends have told ME how they feel, it's felt awkward. That's probably because, once I'm close friends with a guy, they're firmly in the "friend zone". The only friends who stand a chance are people whom I've just met or don't know too well. It really is going to depend on each girl, though. For example, I tend to be very direct when I like someone. If a friend likes me... well, chances are I don't like him back, because if I DID, I would have asked him before he had asked me! Many girls are too nervous to tell friends they like them, though... so sometimes, it's not awkward at all, and it leads to amazing relationships. =) Some people can also avoid much of the awkwardness... but I'm not one of those people. xD