[Dana]

Is there any reason why you would need to get an abortion? Medical or financial problems? It seems odd that your fiancée would be telling you to get an abortion unless he thought it was best for you. But when I read that he said it was either him or the baby, my heart dropped. It appears to me that by pressuring you to do this, your fiancée is a very selfish person who doesn't care about you or your well being. You might want to re-evaluate whether or not he is husband/father material and consider that if you have this baby, you will likely be caring for it entirely on your own. Are you prepared to do that? I do not agree with having babies you cannot care for, why bring another person into the world to suffer with you? But if you can care for this baby, then your fiancée is a jerk, and you should drop him. But first, talk to him and find out why exactly he is opposed to you having this baby.