[BooBooWuvsMichael]

to be very honest. that will be a living breathing child one day. You was blessed to be given another shot at having a baby. dont take it for granted and have an abortion. this is my opinion though. If he truly loves you then he wouldnt want to hurt you or that baby. Its part of you. The way i see it is boyfriends, friends and husbands will never replace a child. I was once married and if at any given moment i would have loved to have a child. Not that i feel that way now. I know now i need to wait as long as possible. But honestly you shouldnt give this away. A childs love with be there forever. That baby needs you. I have came to the conclusion that if i ever get pregnant and the man didnt want it and told me to choose. i would choose that baby. I may be hurt over loosing the man i love but it will be replaced when that baby comes and needs me. That baby will always need you. You will understand one day when you have it, if you do. He shouldnt be making you choose. It already is a living thing. It will grow into something so amazing. My opinion is keep it. If he doesnt want it thats his loss. You and that baby will have each other. share each others pain later on and you will have someone there for you at any given time. Please think hard about this. You keep it or not. But if it comes to the point where you cant keep it. think about adoption. atleast that baby will be able to live. Dont kill it.