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Re: Is this rape? - April 17th 2011, 03:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Marguerite View Post
Ooo, wikipedia. *prepares to be dazzled*
Do you have a problem with the site? Because sucks for you if everything they say on there you question. I know sometimes it says rubbish - but since RapeCrisis came to talk to our school and said roughly the same thing, i believed them


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But then you go on to give another example 'no, no, no, no, okay fine. There is no 'absence of consent' there, the person clearly said 'okay fine', indicating that they have changed their minds from the original no, so your whole argument goes out the window.
Well since consent can be 'implied,' then I think that absence of consent can be IMPLIED too, and by the person having said no for the first few times, does that not imply they do not want sex?

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Persuasion is not forcible compulsion. Forcible compulsion is like me saying 'say yes or I'll punch you in the face' or 'agree to this or I'll kill your family'. 'Pleeeeaseee Emma I'm really horny. Come on, it'll be worth it. Don't you wanna have fun?' isn't forcible compulsion.
Depends on how she was persuaded I guess. And no, what you said isn't forcible compulsion, but can be intimidating if the person has already said no.