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Originally Posted by faithhope
Guys: Why do you guys ignore your ex gfs when youre dating someone new? If you dont like your ex anymore why would you try to get her jealous?
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...are you saying that guys date new people for the sole purpose of making their ex-girlfriends jealous? Please.
We date new people for the purpose of..well, dating new people -- just like everyone else. Nothing more to it. If we're no longer interested in our ex-girlfriends, then it's not a matter of jealousy.
Some of us ignore our ex-gf's simply because it might still bring some negative and hurtful feelings to contact them. Anger, guilt, etc...anything along those lines could make a man (or a woman) want to ignore his/her exes.
Question for everyone: How do you deal with low self-esteem after a break-up?
Question for the girls: Do you usually find independent, reserved, yet confident and knowledgeable men more attractive than boisterous and gregarious men with more active social tendencies?