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Re: Questions for the opposite sex - February 21st 2011, 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Teddy Bear View Post
Okay, here's another question. What are all the reasons for girls to have such low self-confidence to the point that she'll do absolutely anything (or anyone) to make her feel good even though there's nothing to feel bad about?
Teasing and abuse of any kind leads people to think they aren't valuable enough to be treated well, so they have low self-confidence and search for a way to feel better. Teasing can just be being called out on being different, or it can be worse. Little (or big) things grate on you until you feel worthless and you're positive that you'll never amount to anything. If you'll never amount to anything, then it doesn't matter what you do. So you'll do anything.


Caveat:
My verbal rejection, if there was one, of whatever you just suggested does not reflect how very useful it is to me, nor how very grateful I am to you for taking the time to respond.

Also I have trouble knowing what is acceptable to say. The above is sincere and meant to be polite/reassuring.