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So yea I just lost my virginity which I’m ok with. I’m actually pretty happy with my decision. I waited for someone who I really loved and cared about and who really loved me, plus we've been together awhile. The timing just felt right. But my concern obviously is being safe. I know about protecting myself, but I wanted to be birth control if I was going to be sexually active. At the doctors yesterday, I asked about getting on birth control. They basically said No. I had to sit through being lectured condescendingly about abstinence and waiting till marriage, then was told I obviously hadn’t thought it through and should think about it more before becoming sexually active. It was really uncomfortable and I was only trying to be proactive about my health. I don’t know what to do now….so I guess my question is have any of you run into this problem? What do you guys think I should do?