Misplaced Dreamer; only just saw that you quoted me.
Please actually quote me properly otherwise I will not see it.
Alcohol should be avoided but not terrible in small moderation
http://www.nhs.uk/Planners/pregnancy...landdrugs.aspx
Caffeine:
http://www.patient.co.uk/health/Preg...d-Caffeine.htm
Compared to smoking..
http://www.nhs.uk/planners/pregnancy...s/Smoking.aspx