[Kumagoro]

Hey,

I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. I can only imagine how tough it must be for you and although I don't know what you're going through, I know I would feel pretty torn if the same thing happened to me.

You're only 4 weeks pregnant...you still have time to think this through some more. I'm sure you have already thought about this carefully and made a wise decision as you are very young to have a baby, but you also need to think about how you will cope with the emotional pain. I think the ideas in the posts above are good.

Remember you are doing what is best for you and the baby. If you feel that you won't be able to cope with looking after a child then you are making a rational choice. I know guilt is going to be an inevitable feeling, honey, but we're here for you every step of the way.

Take care