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I have not read all the replies to this. But if you are not ready or willing to mature, why did you ask her to marry you? She is not forcing you into anything. You both did the act that got her pregnant, it is her choice either to keep it, terminate, or give up for adoption. Yes you have input, and you gave her that input. She wants to keep it, you need to grow up.


EDIT: ok i read the replies. and everything i just said stands. Grow up. plain and simple. I was married, and guess what? He didnt feel like maturing either, so now I am a divorced mother of one perfect little boy who has a douche bag for a dad. You are acting like a child. I hope for the sake of that baby that you realize what an idiot you are being. You are going to have to either man up and be a father to this child, or live with knowing that you abandoned your flesh and blood son or daughter just because you didnt feel like being a man. instead you want to be a little boy. Oh and remember, even if you do abandon this baby, you will still have to financially help support that child. I hope she takes you for every dime you are ever worth if you dont step up just because you are selfish