Here's a song that I think is very beautiful and can really help:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0yHsNSNVYrI
Mirror -BarlowGirl
Mirror, Mirror on the wall: have I got it?
'Cause Mirror, you've always told me who I am
I'm finding it's not easy to be perfect
So sorry, you won't define me
Sorry, you don't own me
Who are you to tell me
That I'm less than what I should be?
Who are you? Who are you?
Yeah, yeah
I don't need to listen
To the list of things I should do
I won't try, no, I won't try
Mirror, I am seeing a new reflection
I'm looking into the eyes of He who made me
And to Him, I have beauty beyond compare
I know He defines me
Yeah, yeah
Who are you to tell me
That I'm less than what I should be?
Who are you? Who are you?
Yeah, yeah
I don't need to listen
To the list of things I should do
I won't try, no, I won't try
You don't define me, you don't define me
You don't define me, you don't define me
Who are you to tell me
That I'm less than what I should be?
Who are you? Who are you?
Yeah, yeah
I don't need to listen
To the list of things I should do
I won't try, no, I won't try
Yeah, yeah
Who are you to tell me
That I'm less than what I should be?
Who are you? Who are you?
Yeah, yeah
I don't need to listen
To the list of things I should do
I won't try, no, I won't try
Here are some inspirational quotes that have been very helpful for myself:
'Spirit can walk, spirit can swim, spirit can climb, spirit can crawl. There is no terrain you cannot overcome.' --- Irisa Hail
'You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.' --- Buddha
'Love yourself unconditionally, just as you love those closest to you despite their faults.' --- Les Brown
*And when the door begins to crack, it's like a stick across your back. And when your back begins to smart, it's like a penknife in your heart. And when your heart begins to bleed, you're dead, and dead, and dead indeed.*