[Jaguar]

Dude, you're 19. It's time to grow up and face the reality of what's happening. When you post, I notice you're talking only about you. Nothing about wanting her to get what she wants, and caring for her and the family you're creating.

You don't get to keep cruising along, doing what you want to do and not thinking about the consequences. Welcome to the real world. It happens to all of us sooner o later. The only decision you have to make is are you going to take responsibility for it and get together with her and work out something you both can live with, or are you going to not take responsibility for anything and get served with a child support order from the court and be another absentee father.

Sorry: life's a bitch ain't it?