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Re: PUBERTY DIDNT WORK. - September 7th 2010, 05:29 PM

Through the whole of my teens I was desperate for a nose job, I couldn't even look at photos of myself because i was so disgusted by the way my nose looked. The more i researched the operation though, the more I thought about what would happen if it went wrong. and they do go wrong - even with the best, most expensive plastic surgeons in the world they can go wrong. Just think about all the celebrities who've paid unbelievable amounts of money to get work done and its been a total failure. the thought of the surgery going wrong - however small that chance may be - made me look at myself in a whole new light. Over time I gradually began to learn to accept my nose and be happy with it. I can look at photos of myself now and see an attractive woman.

I understand what you mean about how you want boobs because you like boobs. When i was most obsessive about having my nose done I couldn't think of anything prettier or more feminine than a small, straight nose and when i met someone the first thing i noticed about them was their nose. I still find myself doing this from time to time but it doesn't affect me as badly as it used to.

Whatever you decide to do it is your body and so only your choice to make, but 2 points to consider are:

1) Everyone has at least one thing they hate about their body, but it is still your body; you've worn it everyday of your life and it reflects where you've come from so it makes sense to claim some ownership of it and be proud.
2) Right now your breasts are perfectly healthy, they look good and have been made in proportion with the rest of your body, if something went wrong, you could be left with scars, puckering, uneveness, weeping and oozing, to name a few. this is a major operation and should be treated as such.