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Re: Fiancee's Pregnant (2 months) and I'm scared... - January 8th 2009, 06:08 PM
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Originally Posted by kaydee View Post
Ultimately it is her body and her decision in the end.
Can't see how that is true at all.

Without the male sex cell's (gammetes) you would not have it at all. Thus it's a 2 person job and as a result I would always beleive you have a decision as it's your DNA aswell not just hers and this effects your life aswell not just hers.

You always have a choice and don't let anyone tell you differently. You do not have to become a father. And personally I do not think you should.

You obviously do not want it and you are just staying because of the girl you love. This child in your eyes is unwanted and that is unfair on you and the child.

Talk to her, fix this.