View Single Post
  (#3 (permalink)) Old
PGP Offline
Nothing
Average Joe
***
 
PGP's Avatar
 
Name: PGP
Gender: Male
Location: Ohio

Posts: 196
Points: 11,958, Level: 15
Points: 11,958, Level: 15 Points: 11,958, Level: 15 Points: 11,958, Level: 15
Blog Entries: 6
Join Date: February 11th 2010

Re: Is it rape if...? - August 24th 2010, 03:18 AM

well.. I personally wouldn't call it "rape", only because they are not pushing for it while you are saying no. That being said, if you don't want to have sex for whatever reason, your partner should know that, and respect that fact. If they know you don't really want to be intimate but they are pushing anyway, then it's abusive, but i still wouldn't say it's rape unless you're actively resisting.

If they keep not-quite-forcing-you, but you still don't want to do something at whatever times, then you should probably sit them down and let them know how your feeling about it.