but when i the tell doctor about my dad wont he just tell social services ? i dont even have a docotors and appointment yet but my mum threatening me with it. i know i need help and i do want help i jsut dont feel ready to get help. and wouldnt i have to tell my work and my college and then i might loose my job and my college place becuase of i work with kids they might think im a danger to other and get rid of me and kick me off the course.