[MetalManatee]

There is going to be someone out of you and your fiancee here who loses out on the outcome they want from this situation... It is such a massive thing to take on board, when you don't feel ready to be a parent... But unfortunately, this is what can happen if you have unprotected sex, and is a situation that you are going to have to try and deal with (even if you don't feel that you are mature enough at the moment). James' replies seem to be pretty biased towards you getting what you want... And I'm not opposing this, because he's right in one sense that you do need to take your own feelings into account as well as your fiancees, but in order to make a balanced decision on this, there needs to be a solution that you and your fiancee come up with, with which you both feel comfortable.