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Re: Fiancee's Pregnant (2 months) and I'm scared... - January 8th 2009, 12:42 PM

If you dont want the baby, tell her so. Say it's going to fast and you want to look at other options such as abortion or adoption.

No matter how cruel that is , its the truth.

Your 19 year old, you should be out experiance life, sampling the high's and low's of life. Getting worldly experiance. This baby will stop those experiances and force you into parenthood. And most likley when it comes to parenting you will lack the skills other parents have due to life experiance and maturity.

I am strongly against having children at such young ages, its not good for you and it's not good for the future kid.

Do the right thing and tell her how your feeling, no matter how much upset it causes it is worth fixing this. It's your future were talking about, Be selfish.