[PSY]

Hello, Meg.

If your father is willing to stand up for you, and insists that you be able to interact with your half-sibling while visiting your family in Scotland, then that's great. But if he's willing to throw you under the bus, in order to keep his girlfriend happy, you're out of luck. =(

I hope I'm not coming across as too rude by asking this... but why are you so eager to have a child at 16? The only reason why I ask is because I've seen so many young people (including a close friend of mine) rush into getting pregnant, because they want to create a new family and "make up" for poor relationships with their own parents. Perhaps I misunderstood, and you're waiting until you're older and/or financially stable before taking on that responsibility of having a child. If that's the case, I apologize. =P