[shimmeringfaerie]

Thank you, I'm glad that someone else understands what I'm saying .

Who would you feel more sympathy for, the one that actualy bothered to make sure her partner had condoms, or the one who didn't use any?

I wouldn't feel sympathy for either of them (assuming they are just two normal women, not children or anything like that). They both chose to have sex, knowing that sex can result in pregnancy. Just because one woman tried to minimise her risks and was just unlucky, that doesn't make her any more deserving of an abortion.

I can see the difference between the two women obviously, but I don't see why that difference matters?