[emma01]

Originally Posted by ShimmeringFaerie

I still don't see what your point is. If you have sex by choice, even with contraception, why shouldn't you have to deal with the consequences of your actions? Why should women who use contraception be allowed abortions and women who don't shouldn't be allowed?

I still dont see how you can't see the difference! I don't know how to explain this...okay imagine two women, both having sex but do not want babies. One of these women are on birth control pill, and used a condom when having sex, one of the women didn't use a condom and is not on the pill, they both get pregnant and want abortions. Who would you feel more sympathy for, the one that actualy bothered to make sure her partner had condoms, or the one who didn't use any?

If you still don't see the difference, then I will put it like this, your friend had drowned in the pool and there was not much hope to save her. One girl and performed CPR on her and called for help as quick as possible, but it was too late. Another girl didn't bother trying to save her, and didn't call for help asap. Either way she died, but would you not sympathise more with the girl who tried to prevent her from dying EVEN THOUGH IT WAS NOT AFFECTIVE?
I know this has nothing to do with abortion but im trying to get you to understand what I mean.