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Originally Posted by emma01

Okay it may just be me but I thought it was obvious, if you have unprotected sex, you are pretty much setting yourself up to have a baby, usualy when you have unprotected sex, you are either planning on using the ECP, planning to have a baby or just plain stupid. If you use contraception, you are obviously intenting NOT to have kids, and you did everything possible to PREVENT it from happening an shouldn't be punished for somethin that isn't your fault, most people use contraception for a reason.
Isn't that common sence?

But if you are intelligent enough to use contraception, then you should be intelligent enough to know that no contraception is 100%. And if you know that, then sure, you can minimise your risks, but you still know they exist. Doing everything possible to avoid having kids would be abstaining. If you have sex by choice, even if you use contraception, it is still your "fault" if you get pregnant.

Common sense would be not having sex at all until you know you can handle the possibility of getting pregnant.