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Originally Posted by Yung bzy
Question to the girls: what signals do you send to let a guy know that you like him indirectly and directly
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I think most girls like to believe they play hard to get but this is rarely the case. Generally if I like a guy then I want him to give me attention. So I'll start conversations with him online, or I'll text him. But there's always a reason behind it. If I like someone I go to class with for example I'd start with "hiya! have you done the work for this assignment?" and think up a fake question. But most girls retain the 'hard to get' bit by ignoring the guy after a while or taking ages to reply, or acting like they're only talking to them because they need to ask a question or a favour. I guess what I'm saying is that if you seem to always find yourself talking to a girl and it always seems to be her that instigates it but then her interest in you starts to lessen during the conversation, she probably likes you.
Also the whole "be mean to the person you like" thing is totally true to me. I don't do it directly. It's totally a habit that I can't break. It's kind of my way of saying "we're not friends, you are NOT putting me in the friendship zone, I'm happy to joke with you but our relationship is purely superficial unless you show some sort of romantic interest in me".