[Claire]

Hi there. I know how you feel, I wanted a baby so badly for years. I got pregnant by accident and decided to keep it, due partly to that fact that I had always longed for a baby. I just wish now I had thought properly about it, because I never knew what it really meant. Its lovely, don't get me wrong, but I can never convey to you how much work, hassle and WORRY it is. You never stop worrying I'm glad I kept him, but I wish I hadn't wanted one for so long without really knowing what it would involve.

Seriously though, I'm glad you realise what is involved when you say you cannot possibly have one yet. Is there anyone you know with babies or young children? You could always offer to babysit, I'm sure it would be welcomed by them and it would mean you get to spend time around children who you obviously love, with the added bonus of being able to hand them back when they cry/poo/throw up etc! You could also try volunteering in a playgroup or school, they always look for helpers.

As Vicki said, if you and your boyfriend love each other that much then there is no need to rush as it will happen one day and you should enjoy these moments of freedom together because you'll never get these back. If you ever have a question or just want to chat, pm me and I'll listen x x