[VanishingActs]

Hey there,

I have heard about this before, one of my close friends went through a similar feeling as you are experiencing. It's normal to sometimes think about the future and when you are so emotionally attached to each other thoughts of pregnancy can occur.

The thing to remember though is that could you sufficiently bring up a child? As you said, your financial situations are not great and you are both really young. Would it be fair to bring a child into the world under such circumstances? Having a child is a massive deal and you would have to make a load of sacrifices. You would most likely have to kiss your social life goodbye and as you are so young you should be seeing the world and having fun right now.

I think if you guys are serious about each other and truly in love you will last time and then when things are right for you both and it is a good time in the future then you may be able to talk seriously about having a child.

Also, do use contraception. You said he never cums inside you so I am presuming you are using the withdrawal method? This is not effective at all. Pre-cum can get you pregnant. Always use condoms or go and speak to your doctor about additional contraception (e.g. the Pill).

I hope things work out for you.

Take care,
Vicki