Yeah my gf and I plan to wait for marriage. Because at that point even if we both wanted sex before that then it will be so much better because we waited and about your problem with thinking your forsaken for having sex. If you love each other and both want to have sex. God wants you to be happy with your life and enjoy it, God doesn't want to make you miserable he just wants to make sure your not making a regretable decision. if you don't think you want to have sex because you lust each other or have an infatuation go ahead
. The reason so many people wait till marriage is they are not making that mistake of giving it too the wrong person because marriage is a really big decision.