That's great that you've realized it and started coming out on
TH! I wish you best o luck on learning and discovering everything about this. As for names, yeah just do some internet searching and narrow things down and if you want opinions ask friends or
TH. I myself recently chose my new name and had some input from
TH members. I too will put out the invitation to
PM me. I'd be happy to offer any advise, input, or experiences I have.