[Ryan1]

Originally Posted by ShAtTerEd HeaRt

okay question to the guys:

why is it that guys can be sooooooooooooo sweet 1 minute and
rude the next???
like my old boyfriend was really sweet to me at first but then for no reason
when he was trying to talk to somebody and i was finishing up what i was saying he told me to shut up. and it wasnt in a casual way it was in a serious way like "jocelynn. SHUT.UP.

even though guys r like is that just theyre way of dealing with love and just there way of love or what????
i mean when you tell somebody to shut up what does it mean honestly?

Well depending on what guy you’re dealing with it can change, some guys are just naturally more aggressive and get angry a little more easily, while others are soft spoken and nothing can get under their skin.

Here’s a little thing my ex girlfriend did to me that kind of got under my skin.

She’d call me everyday for no reason, and expect that I would just stop my day and strike up a conversation, however she knew that I worked and was extremely busy being on the jobsite, Yet she still continued to call me and was upset when I said I had to go.

Like Hello, I’m getting paid by the hour my boss would shit if he saw me on the phone with my girlfriend, you see how little things can lead up to a bigger issue?

I guess girls want the interaction where as guys could careless. Perhaps you’ve just been doing something not necessarily wrong but something that triggers him. Talking to much can often times ‘piss’ guys off. I know how that sounds but I'm just spilling the truth.

Guys are nice when they either want something or you’ve got them whiped. Most men don’t go around looking to be ‘nice’ we are either neutral horny or pissed off. That’s just the way it is.

Come to think about it any guy that just out right tells you to shut up is not someone you want to be with. Because that's not the way a true man should treat his girlfriend regardless of how mad he is.