[TheBabyEater]

My boyfriend and I havn't actually done it yet, but he really wants to.
So I would do what I did, and next time he brings it up, talk to him about it!
I told mine that in the shower I actually want to like. Wash my hair and stuff (i seriously cannot go a day without showering and getting clean and stuff. it's rather pathetic actually) and he said he actually wanted to as well. Which surprised me. I thought he just wanted to have sex in the shower or something.
He said that we'd probably snuggle, joke around, actually wash our hair and soap up and such. And it may or may not lead to sex later. knowing us we'd probably splash eachother and wrestle in the shower and possibly accidentaly hit our heads and kill ourselves before having sex in the shower. lol (we act like 5 year olds, yes. but i love it)

So I would talk to him about it, even if it's in a joking way. That's how I talk to mine most of the time, but it works.