hiyo...
been in a serious relationship with a guy for 1 1/2 years, and we've been through alot of significant things together. we were inseperable throughout the relationship, and had to spend alot of time alone because of circumstances (as opposed to hanging out with a group of friends)...
now he's pulling away! used to want me there all the time, now he wants to "do his own thing more". in all fairness, he's been in relationships for three years, has a low self-esteem, and really never built solid relationships with himself or guys his age. family issues also played a part...
so! sorry for the novel. but, as the girl in the situation...... guys, if you said you wanted to do your "own thing more", became considerably less affectionate, and are trying to figure yourself out (we are still young, after all)... what would you want/need/expect your girlfriend to do?
be honest! is he blowing me off?
Matthew: good looks don't hurt, but i'm all about the personality!