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medication ruining my sex life :( - September 20th 2009, 03:54 PM

i'm on medication for anxiety problems (some of you may have read my other thread) the medicatioin is called something like citalopram or something.
anyway, i've only been taking it for about 5 days and it's just ruined my sex life, i can't orgasm, i hardly feel pleasure from any touch down there, i'm always dry no matter how much lube i use.sex feels ok but we have another problem,my boyfriend doesn't last very long and i need fast sex to feel anything but that makes him come so yh, not having a very good sex life at the moment. and also, i get so tired at night,like extremely tired, i'm not sure if that has anything to do with the tablets but it kind of means i almost fall asleep during sex . so yh they are messing up my sex life.
i have got to make an appointment with the docter in 2 weeks time anyway, so i may tell her but i'll be so embaressed to say "well yh the tablets are working but they are full on messing up my sex life" . i'm wandering, could it just be a temporary effect of the medicine?? i know you aren't docters on here but i'd like some opinons.
oh and by the way please don't say things like "try new things,experiment etc etc" because my boyfriend is AMAZING! he does everything right and i usualy orgams within 10 minutes, but now we go on for like 1 hour and NOTHING happens . i am always the one giving up after an hour lol.
it's so annoying, i kind of just need some reasurance that these effects are only temporary . because i can't stop taking the medicine, i need it because i suffer badly with anxiety but this is stressing me and my boyfriend out. ow i need a hug

o yes and how can my boyfriend last longer during sex??