Over the Labor Day weekend, I had sex with my boyfriend. It was my first time. He used a condom.
Afterward, he took off the condom and put it on the nightstand next to me. A few minutes later, I was getting up and accidentally touched the used condom (and probably some semen, but I'm not positive). I then went into the bathroom and was examining my vagina, as it was my first time, so I was bleeding a bit. I think I might have touched my vagina with the same fingers as I touched the used condom.
There was probably a five minute gap from when I touched the condom to when I examined myself.
Could this have impregnated me? Even if it didn't, condoms are never one hundred percent effective, right?
Under any other circumstances, I wouldn't be worried that I was pregnant...
But I haven't gotten my period in about 25 days (my periods are NEVER regular though
, my breasts feel tender and I was having slight constipation problems earlier. This really worries me because, from what I understand, these are signs of pregnancy.
On another note, if I am pregnant, I will get an abortion. My parents are extremely strong conservative Catholics and my dad has honestly threatened to kill me if I ever get pregnant before I get married. Please do not say "Oh, he probably doesn't mean it." He does. At the very least (if I'm lucky), I would be kicked out of the house.
*I'm about
XXX pounds underweight and because of work and school, I'm stressed frequently - these could also be causes of my lack of a period, right? Even so, it's been 25 days, not 28...
I'm 17 years old and live in Washington state, so I would be able to get an abortion without my parents consent or even knowledge.
Please, help me. I'm scared and I feel alone. My boyfriend doesn't know about this, but I will probably tell him soon.
(I want to take a pregnancy test, but I don't want to take one too soon because it might turn out negative, while I am actually pregnant.)
Thank you so much. I appreciate everything. xo