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Re: Questions for the opposite sex - Volume I - June 28th 2009, 07:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Ktwashere View Post
If you mean rough then yes, some do, some don't.

If you mean aggresive, then i think i can answer for all girls and say no.

Why do guys find it necessary to put down their gf infront of others?
I'm not a guy, but I know for a fact that it's because guys want to appear tough and in control in front of their friends. They, whether they are conscious of it or not, want to be manly and big, and a guy who's tough on someone, emotionally or physically, is very manly in their opinion.
If he's nice the rest of the time, then I would suggest letting him have time alone with his guy friends and then the time you have alone together is worth more. If he's mean all the time... err, I won't say it.
A guy needs to have separate worlds and when those worlds collide, he ends up being mean to either his friends or his significant other. Let him have his separate worlds so he can be nice to everyone.