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Re: what is so wrong about gay marriage??? - June 20th 2009, 04:22 PM

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Concrete Girl- Don't even bother arguing. People like Grizabella don't want to hear your reasoning. You can throw facts in their face, you can give them links that prove a specific point wrong, and they write it off as "meaningless". They blame Christians for forcing views on people, yet they are the type of people who won't stop to get their way; and even when they do get their way they are offended and feel they haven't achieved anything unless they make everyone (even people in private organizations) see things their way. This is because the they are followers of liberalism, and the ultimate goal of liberalism in this country can not succeed without silencing those who oppose their way, that should be a hint that their form of Government is wrong; on the other hand, the republic with a small federal Government, which is the goal of Conservatives, can operate with opposing views.
lolz. First, one word, HYPOCRITE. Don't want to hear reasoning, you've ignored EVERY SINGLE post I've directed at you. EVERY SINGLE post.

We are trying to silence people who disagree? Um, no, I engaged with you in discussion, you ignored me. Since when has conversativism ever tried to consider conflicting views? Conservative is far more narrow the liberalism. Liberalism is after allowing laws to bring as much freedom to everyone (not just the majority or rich), as possible without infringing on the rights of other. Therefore the idea of gay marriage, without forcing churches to marry gays, but at least having the option, and court marriages maintains the anti-gay churches' rights to not marry gays, yet allows gays to get married if they want. This would be freedom.


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You are a smart girl. This is clearly happening, yet these people deny that their agenda has any plans to infiltrate the church. There are 2000 years of church teachings set in stone, and the gay agenda want to come in and say "let me just cross out this part, delete that, modernize this...and we're good".
lolz again. Our agenda? Infiltrating the church? Um, no... for example, a few weeks ago, I went to the National Union of Students LGBT Campaign conference, which is the biggest student LGBTQ movement in the UK. The conference is to decide policy on campaigns are such to focus on in the year. Guess what? The church didn't even come up. Not once. So you go find some evidence that the movement is infiltrating the church, and maybe you can make that point.

Whereas, as I pointing out, there is very little actual knowledge of the church's teachings on gay marriage in much of the early church, and middle ages. As I pointed out, as homosexuality wasnt a real concept till the lasdt few hundred years, there was little discussion on gays, and when there was, it was from specific individuals, mostly from the view that every one is straight, so gay sex is explicitly a rebellion to human nature. There is a lot of academic research on the 'clobber' passage against gays to suggest its really not all that straight forward. Go watch a documentary called 'So The Bible Tells Me So' (no, this wasnt my only source of information, they just made an easily understandable documentary, and its more interesting then all the reading I've done).

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If gays were being treated as second class citizens, and as terribly as they let on, they would not have any rights whatsoever. I do agree that gays should be allowed to have the same rights as married couples, only as registered couples, but I do not agree that gays should be allowed to participate in the sacrament of marriage in a Christian church, as that is controversial to Christian beliefs.


No, thats not second class citizens, that would be non-human status. Second class citizens are anyone who are not being given equal rights by law.

And again, secular marriages exist, the Church is not the only place of Marriage in the Western world... plus, for those churches not against gay marriage, they should be allowed freedom of religion too.


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No not really. I don't think that not having marriage benefits qualifies a person as a "second class citizen", that is a gross over-exaggeration. That would mean any single person who is lacking those benefits is also a second class citizen. Not to mention, the lack of the benefits doesn't come with harassment, being disregarded from protection of laws, and it doesn't limit their ability to get a career.
Lack of marriage, at least in America does mean in many places the partners of gays can't get the same benefits the spouses of employees can get from jobs, like health insurance, etc. It also makes adoption harder, even if it's of the partner's own genetic children. It also means they don't get family rights in relation to their partner in the health system in some places... so for example, they can't find out the status of their partner's health, if their partner has had to go into hospital. As they aren't considered family.

Also, it continues this idea that if gays don't deserve marriage, that they are different, and indirectly reinforces prejudice. Prejudice leads to discrimination.

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- And thats nice, I'll pick up the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms for some vacation reading next time i go up to Canada. Oh, and that would be never.
Since when was this thread explicitly, exclusively American, this is discussion on a concept. In fact, there are more non-Americans in this thread then Americans. If you Americans want us to give a shit about your constitution, you better damn well respect the laws of other countries in the same way.

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Are you capable of participating in a friendly debate without becoming arrogant and offensive? I live in Canada. And just so you know, our laws are just as valid as yours in the States. So tone down your ethnocentric attitude if you please.
I love you.

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And Leviticus 18:22 states: [/font] "Homosexuality is absolutely forbidden, for it is an enormous sin" I am not saying that bible scripture is superior to law, but rather that the bible is a bit like Christian law. Christians are not trying to deny gays the right to be together, but gays DO NOT have the right to be married, for marriage is a sacrament for a man and a woman. Christians follow and are always going to follow the word of their God, however unfair homosexuals seem to think it is.
Um... Leviticus doesn't state that. Like, really, even if you interperate it that way, it does not actually say those words. The word homosexual should never appear in the Bible, because it did not exist in the days the Bible was written. Also.... the term they use for abomination (which I asusme you've translated as enormous sin?), is a term for some that isn't inheritantly evil, but was made so to the people of Isreal.

I still don't understand where your understanding of marriage comes from either? Throughout history, its not been about love... it's been about contracts, money, protection, providing, etc. Also, why is the conservative Christian definition of marriage the only correct one? Marriage can be secular, marriage can be religious of people with different views, etc, etc.

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But what's the difference? Marriage is marriage. Gays have the right to fight for their rights to get married. But just the same, any person who is against gay marriage also has the right to fight in order to make gay marriage illegal. Everyone has rights to what they believe, no matter who deems their beliefs as unfair.
Ok, here's the thing, you are missing the point, and even though it's been explained to you clearly, you are missing the point. There is a difference to a right to believe something, and what laws shoud prevent people from doing. The law should be objective.

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I never said your laws weren't valid. But they are only valid IN CANADA.
Well then, shut up, the only points you made reflected your view on America. If anyone is expected to listen to your views, based on your country, respect others based on their's.

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Your comparison to receiving a lower pay than an equal in rank worker is invalid. Why? Because it is stated in the constitution that woman have equal rights to men. Show me which amendment of the constitution tells you that gays have the right to marry? Let me think. There's an amendment that abolishes slavery. An amendment for the rights of Woman. But still, I do not recall there being a right for gays. Therefore, and I'm not saying it's right, BUT anyone who is against gay marriage STILL has the RIGHT to fight to abolish gay marriage.
Amendants were made because people were trying to loop hole your constitution to deny women and blacks equal rights.


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Think back to times when blacks were being discriminated against. Slavery was outlawed, "all men were equal" but that didn't stop discrimination from happening. It didn't stop black men not having the right to vote, did it? Simply because it is stated that all men are created equal does not mean that gays should have the right to marry. It's not because straight people are more superior, but that marriage is not meant for people of the same sex. The reason it would not be illegal to abolish same sex marriage would be because gays are still offered rights. They may not be the same rights, but they are rights. Equal rights are a joke. If we all had equal rights, the big shots up on wall street wouldn't be being paid billions for doing nothing, when those who actually work for their money are in debt. So don't give me any bologna about equal rights, the government always finds a way to sneak past the rights listed in the constitution. Therefore if they have their mind set to abolish same sex marriage, they'll definitely find a way to go through with it. Equal rights don't always play a part, as much as we would like to think so.


And theoretically, you think this is exceptable, that equal rights aren't there? Nice.

And please, explain where you get the idea that marriage isn't applicable to the same sex? Divorce is against Christianity. Still legal in the US. Not to mention, the meaning of things can change with society. Otherwise you wouldnt be going to school, or having a chance for a career.

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Simply because I believe that marriage should be kept simply for men and women does not mean that I am a discriminatory person. Have I stated that I am against same sex relationships? No, I haven't. I am aware that Christianity does not make the laws, I am aware of that. But if they do not make the laws, why are so many gays so damn worried that Christians are going to somehow abolish gay marriage?
You are the one who is obsessing most about the Christians? But Christianity in the US does make laws, even though in a country claiming to be the land of the free (which for the record, it really really isnt), it shouldnt.

And it kinda is discriminatory, as you, as of yet, haven't given a logical, rational reason to hold your view against this group.

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Well you failed to address my point I posted earlier on the previous page, it answers you question.

"Who is THEY? Some people have argued that they DO want to do that (change the church), even on here. So probably a lot more people want to change the church than you believe/ want to believe. It is obvious that you are not speaking for the whole movement, and there are parts of the movement that are more threatening to the church that you do not speak for."

Again, you don't speak for the whole movement when you say "they don't want to change the church". I'm sure there are probably plenty of gays who don't want that to happen. But the politicians, the ones IN CHARGE of the movement, do want this to happen.



You are WAY off base with your ridiculous hypothetical situations. Freedom of religion is CLEARLY allowed to the people by the Bill of Rights. The right to be homosexual is also in the bill of rights, but it does not ensure them the right to get married in the bill of rights. Since their right to marry is not in the bill of rights, then there has to be a separate law to ensure that, and separate laws are up to the people.
You are denying freedom of religion to other people...

Also, just out of curiousity, what makes you a voice on the gay movement and 'agenda'