[lvpeyton]

Originally Posted by Jake

For girls:
Have you ever settled for someone(Say as your boyfriend) while secretly crushing on someone else? Because you consider them out of your league or un-accessable. Yet still talk to them, showing interest?

Does that happen?

okay- so. i think this can happen to girls. i think that some girls think there is a guy out of reach or a guy that is just never going to happen- so instead of facing a fear of rejection, they most likely take what they can get. they can still really like their boyfriend, but they secretly wish they could've had a shot. they probably still have some type of interest in the other person while having a boyfriend, because that doesn't go away over night, and possibly flirt a little bit.

however, in some cases, the girl will get over this guy that was not in her league if nothing ever happens and be happy with her boyfriend who gave her a shot. she might fall in love with him.

actually- this is why i'm single though. i don't want to settle, so i'm going to wait as long as i can