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Originally Posted by lvpeyton
question for the boys 
why does it seem like every time a girl is interested in a guy, he isn't? but as soon as she doesn't really care anymore, he starts to try to get with her??
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Well.. Generally, the guy is either secretly interested or is just not interested at all. So he either shows no interest intentionally, in an attempt to try a sort of "hard to get" kind of thing. I guess to test the girl and her find out her intentions. Or just honestly is not interested and doesn't notice the girls interest.
Either way, afterwards when the girl stops showing interest. The boy either:
1. Realizes the girl has stopped chasing him, he's waited too long.
2. Notices the girl isn't talking to him as much anymore or whatever, realizes the girl is interested and possibly becomes interested in her; simply because of that fact.
The boy then turns into the one doing the chasing as he is interested. Girl takes the opportunity and makes something of it.. or does the same the boy did, which leads to a vicious circle. (HURRAY for vicious circles!)
For girls:
Have you ever settled for someone(Say as your boyfriend) while secretly crushing on someone else? Because you consider them out of your league or un-accessable. Yet still talk to them, showing interest?
Does that happen?