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Originally Posted by xxEllexx
because they obviously feel that they either could not care for a child sufficiently or do not want a child. i think it's much kinder to abort a child in this situaton than to put it up for adoption. this would cause unecessary trauma for the woman and the child, which could be avoided by abortion.
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Explain what you mean by this - YOU brought the child fully into it. In that statement, yes being an adoptee does have a huge connection to me and it's more personally tied to me and other adoptees than it is to you. Just clarify what exactly it is you're trying to say, you said it - not me.
The only situations I've seen brought up is the mother not wanting it for whatever reason and unsafe sex. Are you saying that in those cases you honestly believe the child would prefer to have been aborted? Would have been "kinder"? Because I can tell you, even on my worse days, that's far from it.
Here I'm not talking about the girl, I'm asking what you meant concerning the child.