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Re: Not sure what to do with my friend? -
December 27th 2024, 11:32 PM
Hi there, I know you posted this a while ago and I hope things have been resolved now.
The important thing to keep in mind that it's ok to be firm with your boundaries and say the word "no" or "stop" when something makes you uncomfortable. You might feel comfortable around this person, but he was doing things like inappropriately touching you when you were snoozing or in a room with other people. Being a "sub" is perfectly, fine; but that should be kept to a private area where you're away from people. What he did was inappropriate, and you even said it made you uncomfortable.
Also, like Dez said, being sexual (whether with or without your consent) can get you and the other person in serious trouble. Expressing any indication of sexual behavior (regardless if you're 12 of 18) can have legal consequences because you're engaging in this behavior around other people who have not consented to seeing this act. You are subjecting them to sexual activity (again, regardless of age or consent given) that they never wanted to see.
School is supposed to be about learning. Keep the sexual act for the after-hours in the privacy of your home.
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