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Re: Dating - December 27th 2024, 11:25 PM

Hey there, you made this thread a few weeks ago and I wanted to check in. I hope you've been able to talk to your parents, and the fact they hate him based on his surname is absolutely ridiculous. It could be racist or xenophobic if it's not a 'traditional American' surname. I would strongly suggest talking to your parents, give them reasons to support your relationship with this person.

In the meantime, with those emails, I would wait until you're no longer grounded to communicate with your boyfriend. Something I came to learn many years ago is that an institution (business or educational) internet technicians (ITs) and the school administrator can track your website activity. They can see every website that gets visited on a particular computer, and every message that is sent or received from it.

You're just putting yourself at a greater risk of trouble by continuing to use the computer for non-educational purposes. Also, if your boyfriend is over the age of consent, you're putting him at risk of getting into legal trouble for communicating with a minor.

Wishing you the best of luck!
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