Re: match made in heaven or hell? -
Yesterday, 10:59 PM
Hey,
This is a tricky situation to navigate. Communication is definitely key here, as making assumptions runs the risk of one or both of you ending up hurt. While he said that he hadn't given being something more much thought and apologized for the misunderstanding, it doesn't sound like he completely dismissed the idea of dating. That being said, it doesn't sound like he had active enthusiasm about it either. Sitting down with him and having a conversation about where you both stand could give you some insight into his feelings. You can ask him whether he is open to seeing where things go or if he would rather keep your relationship solely platonic. If he's interested, great! If he isn't interested in pursuing a relationship, you can always focus on building a strong friendship with him. The important thing to remember when having a conversation like this is that it is essential for you to accept what he says, even if you don't get the response you were hoping for.
Take care,
Sam
wanderlust consumed her;
foreign hearts & exotic minds compelled her.
she had a gypsy soul
and a vibrant heart for the unknown.
-d. marie
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