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Originally Posted by Enigmatic.
Parking the car is good, but having an underaged child expose himself to you — I don't care he's the age of consent in your province — is absolutely inappropriate when you're more than twice his age and are friends with his mother. I'm sorry that he got turned on by you in a bikini last summer, but it's your moral obligation to set boundaries and report this to his mother. I know you said his mother was going away for a short period a few months ago, but she must be back by now. It's probably a bit scary to talk to her about it because she'll accuse you — the forty year old — of coming onto her nineteen year old son and not the other way around. Mothers tend to see their children as infallible and if it's sexual, it's always going to be the older person's fault. I suggest asking her out for a cup of coffee and discussing it with her. She deserves to know what her son did to you, and who knows if he's exposing himself to other women. I know that would make me — also a woman approaching forty — very uncomfortable.
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When I talked to him he said that I was the only woman he had done it with. He certainly sounded sincere and he seemed to understand the reasons why he shouldn't do it again, but I can't really be sure exactly what he is or isn't going to do in the future. I don't have any kind of regular contact with him. I did talk to a friend about what happened and she said that talking to his mother was probably a good idea. I had hoped that it wouldn't be necessary, but you've made me think. I will be seeing her soon though not alone, so maybe I'll be able to ask her if we could talk in private.