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Originally Posted by VBertrand

Definitely. My own car has a stick shift so it’s even harder to do it safely. Better to drive somewhere and park.

Parking the car is good, but having an underaged child expose himself to you — I don't care he's the age of consent in your province — is absolutely inappropriate when you're more than twice his age and are friends with his mother. I'm sorry that he got turned on by you in a bikini last summer, but it's your moral obligation to set boundaries and report this to his mother. I know you said his mother was going away for a short period a few months ago, but she must be back by now. It's probably a bit scary to talk to her about it because she'll accuse you — the forty year old — of coming onto her nineteen year old son and not the other way around. Mothers tend to see their children as infallible and if it's sexual, it's always going to be the older person's fault. I suggest asking her out for a cup of coffee and discussing it with her. She deserves to know what her son did to you, and who knows if he's exposing himself to other women. I know that would make me — also a woman approaching forty — very uncomfortable.