[Querencia]

Hi there.

I’m sorry you are dealing with this. Lying about being sexually assaulted is extremely awful, and as it has been said, it is one of the reasons that true victims are sometimes labeled as “liars” when in reality it took a lot to speak their truth in the first place. On the other hand, I am unaware of any scientifically accurate way to determine virginity. Knowing who is being honest and who is bending the truth can be difficult to unravel unless you are in or extremely close to the situation so part of me would personally keep an open mind while distancing myself on a personal level. Regardless of the underlying details, I recommend staying as far away from the situation as possible to protect your inner peace because understandably it is affecting you a lot.

Meanwhile, please feel free to continue reaching out to us if new details arise that you’d like to talk about, or if you have anything else on your mind. You got support!