[Hiraeth.]

I think it's important to understand why the relationships you've had in the past didn't work out. Problems between two people are never one-sided, so while you think about what the issues were with that person, think about what you've done wrong and see how you can fix it going forward. Communication is an important part to relationships, and knowing when you need to talk is very important. Running away from relationships, including potential ones, won't help you in the long term.

I hope you were able to talk to this girl and wishing you the best of luck!